How Do I Heal?

Let me begin by saying how sorry I am for your loss. I do understand your pain and I feel for you deeply. In the writing of this letter I hope you will understand that I am here to help. I have learned a lot in my own experience that I hope will be of use to you. If nothing else, I hope you see that your feelings and emotions are normal. I have been there and many others have as well. You are not alone. I have tried to gear this section towards parents like us. Grief is a process that we must go through because of our circumstances. There is no way around it. Below are some subjects that you may find helpful. I have broken this up into sections so you can take it one piece at a time. Go through these at your own pace. Everyone grieves differently so there's no wrong way.

Please know that I am always here to help. If you have a specific question or comment, you can e-mail me. I will respond promptly. I check my e-mail daily so if you don't hear back from me with in a couple of days I may not have received it. Also, there are times when I am out of the office for a few days. If that is the case, I will responds as quickly as possible. I pray that God is with you during this time and for the days that lie ahead.

Sincerely,
Julie Lane

ATTENTION: Due to current family circumstances, no updates will be posted to this site until September 2002. This is to include any and all correspondence as e-mail will not be returned until that time. Beginning in September we will work to catch up on all e-mail and updates. Please be patient with us during this time. We appreciate your visit and thank you for coming.